Welcome to our family

Join us in our journey

Baby Ryan

Baby Joseph

Once upon a time

Born and raised in the Philippines, we lived a happy childhood in happy homes filled with love from our families

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In 2017, we met in a place where LGBTQ+ isn't accepted, but the love we nurtured was stronger than the odds we faced

Destiny was kind

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We became each other's person and together, embraced a life grounded

on faith, dreams and inspiration

It's a "Yes"

At the 50th World Pride, we got engaged and shared our grandest expression of love in front thousands at the monumental Stonewall - thanks to Netlix, Queer Eye and Fab 5

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Then "I do"

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Before the world stopped in 2020, we eloped and started our "forever" as husbands, with big dreams of building a beautiful family

Fast forward to 3 years of a happy marriage, we've planted our roots in Massachusetts, USA and have been blessed with a handsome dog child, Primo

Happily ever after... today

One

with our community

We celebrate and advocate for LGBTQ+, BIPOC and healthcare workers through the book that we published, non-profits we support and ERGs we volunteer for

Happily

ever after... tomorrow

It's our ultimate dream to become dads and are now intended parents aspiring for an answered prayer through the surrogacy path

If only

The financial aspect is our biggest challenge as the surrogacy path costs a whopping $275K which we clearly don't have


This will cover egg donor, surrogate, IVF, insurance, medical, agency and legal fees for approximately 2 years

We need your love

With utmost humility, we knock on your loving hearts for financial help, grants, sponsorships or collaboration to support the beginning of our family's journey

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other forms of support,

please email us

joseph_a0321@yahoo.com

ryanmarkrebeca86@gmail.com

Thanks and

warm hugs

Men Having Babies non-profit for granting us Gay Parenting Assistance Program (GPAP) Stage 1 approval giving us service discounts from participating providers

surrogacy agencies and financial assistance companies for supporting us in the early stages of our journey

and anonymous donors for starting our baby fund